Free, VIP and VIP Plus
Fresh matches each day, private chat, group fun and badges that prove who's real, tier by tier.
Every member gets a profile, new matches each day and a way to start flirting, all on the free Classic membership. VIP takes the brakes off messaging and search. VIP Plus shoves you to the front of the queue.
Each day the site lines up members it reckons you'll click with. It weighs the age range you've set, who you fancy, how far away they are and how recently they've been active, so you're not chatting up a profile that went cold last winter.
It also looks at what you're after, from casual fun to something long-term or plain friendship, plus the stuff that matters in and out of bed: drinking, smoking, sport, hobbies, even beliefs if they count for you. The matches get you in the door. What you say next is up to you.
Your profile does the flirting while you're at work. Post photos and status updates, comment on articles and other members' posts, and have a go at the polls and quizzes. Spell out what you're up for, from roleplay and watching to video chat or a bit of outdoor fun, and nobody has to guess.
Tier by tier
Start free and step up when you're keen. Each tier keeps everything in the tier beneath it.
A full profile with photos and status updates, browsing, new matches each day, comments, polls and quizzes. You get a limited number of messages to send each day, and you can always read and answer any VIP or VIP Plus member who writes first. The ID check, admin validation and badges cost nothing.
Message whoever you like, whenever you like. Advanced filters narrow things down by city, distance, experience level and what people are open to. Get into the members-only chat rooms, or start a private group chat for up to 50 people, VIP and free members welcome, when you're planning something naughtier. See everyone who's liked you, rewind anyone you swiped past too fast, and watch your comments sit higher in the feeds.
Everything in VIP, plus a pool of exclusive matches, your messages and likes seen first, and your profile on top of every potential match's suggestions. Profile boosts and Super Matches are yours to buy on top.
| Feature | Classic (free) | VIP | VIP Plus |
|---|---|---|---|
| Full profile, photos and status updates | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Browse members | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Match suggestions each day | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Comments, polls and quizzes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Read and reply to VIP and VIP Plus | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Free ID check and admin validation | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Badges | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Messages you can send | Limited each day | Unlimited | Unlimited |
| Advanced search filters | No | Yes | Yes |
| Members-only chat rooms | No | Yes | Yes |
| Private group chats, up to 50 | No | Yes | Yes |
| Rewind swipes | No | Yes | Yes |
| See everyone who likes you | No | Yes | Yes |
| Priority comment placement | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive matches | No | No | Yes |
| Messages and likes seen first | No | No | Yes |
| Top of the match stack | No | No | Yes |
| Profile boost | No | No | Add-on |
| Super Match | No | No | Add-on |
What each plan costs, from a week to a year, is on the pricing page.
VIP Plus members can buy two extras. A profile boost pushes you out to every active member in your area for a while, handy in a smaller town. A Super Match lands in their inbox in a bright colour scheme they can't miss, puts your profile in front of them before any other match or message, and lets them reply straight away and get a proper conversation going. Save it for the profile that's got you hot under the collar.
Every member, free or paid, can take the ID check at no cost and earn a blue tick on their profile. Rather not flash your documents? A live video check with a moderator confirms you're you without them, and our team can look over your profile by hand and give it a validation badge. An automatic age estimate, backed by extra checks where the law calls for them, keeps under-18s out.
Badges do the bragging for you. Verified, Chatterbox, Heartthrob and Most Popular are earned through what you do on the site, and they tell people you're real, active and worth a message. The safety page lists every protection working behind the scenes.
Filthy Over Fifty runs in the browser you've already got, on a phone, tablet, laptop or desktop. Pin it to your home screen and it behaves like an app, no trip to the app store needed. The Login button up top gets you straight back in.
Set your age range and how far you'll travel, say what you're into, and let the matches roll in.
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